Infant baptism

baptism

The commencement of your child’s sacramental journey is the reception of the Sacrament of Baptism.

The sacrament is celebrated whilst the community are gathered during Mass.  Because Baptism is the sacrament when the child is being welcomed into the Family of God, it is important that the family are there to participate in and celebrate the ceremony. The explanation of the ceremony is included in the kit given at the initial visit. The significance of the commitment of the parent and godparents cannot be underestimated and is worthy of reflection, as each of these people is asked to respond positively to questions based on the Creed. In baptism, parents ‘speak’ for their child and parents and godparents promise to support the child on the faith journey – a privilege perhaps underestimated.  It is important that one godparent is a Catholic.

The initial step requires you to call into the Parish office at 23 Dinwoodie Street, Hamilton on a Monday morning at 10.30am, where Carolyn will be most willing to help you get started by completing a simple form. Dates can be organised and a Baptism preparation kit given to the family. You will also be given the date of the next Baptism Preparation evening, which both parents are encouraged to attend. One week prior to the celebration of the Sacrament, arrangements are made for Fr Paddy to visit your home. During this visit, the child receives some of the anointings relative to the Sacrament.

A stipend of $50 is requested which covers stipend, stole, candle and certificate.

Enquiries may be made by phoning during the above times on 5571 1161.

 

Weddings

Pre Marriage Procedure

MAKING CONTACT WITH THE PRIEST WHO WILL CELEBRATE THE MARRIAGE – Couples are encouraged to marry in the Parish Church of either the man or the woman, preferably with one of the clergy of that parish acting as celebrant. The Church’s Pastoral role emphasises the importance of preparation for marriage within a faith community.

You should make contact with one of the Priests as soon as possible after your engagement, allowing 12 months prior to the date of your wedding to make arrangements to meet him and begin your preparation.

The Welfare of the couple should be given priority.

WORKING WITH THE PRIEST – The Priest will want to meet you several times – to get to know you, in order to make the celebration of your wedding as personal and memorable as possible. He will want to help you use the time leading up to your wedding well, to prepare for a really good marriage. He will assist with sharing an understanding of the Catholic faith, where there is an interfaith context for the marriage. He will also assist you in preparing the ceremony for your wedding.

DOCUMENTS REQUIRED – Birth Certificates – Baptism Certificates – Letter of Freedom from Parish Priest (if bride or groom is not resident in St Mary’s Parish, Hamilton)

Note Also: Priests from other parishes are welcome to perform marriage ceremonies in this parish.

It is the responsibility of the Celebrant to ensure that:

  1. The couple are free to marry according to the rite of the Catholic Church;
  2. The pre-nuptial inquiry forms (Marriage Declaration Forms) for both parties are filled out;
  3. All documentation both Church and civil is completed;
  4. Any necessary dispensations are given.

Cost and Payment

The fee payable for a wedding is $630. This includes a $30 fee for FOCCUS a pre-marriage program, $260 for church use and $340 for the Priest’s stipend. A deposit of $100 is payable at the time of booking and will confirm your booking. Balance to the paid one month prior to the wedding date.

If you have chosen a Celebrant outside the Hamilton area, this clergy fee, as well as the booking fee for the Church still applies. (It is proper to offer remuneration to the visiting priest, ie: travel plus offering).

Pre- Marriage Education

Couples are expected to attend the pre-marriage FOCCUS program currently being run in the parish. The priest will give the couple information regarding the program.

Special Notes

Marriage Ceremonies will be in accordance with the Rites of the Catholic Church. Priests will provide guidelines to be followed (appropriate readings, etc.)

Church Music –  We believe that the choice of music for the Marriage Ceremony ought to express and enhance the Christian vision of marriage. The ceremony should be dignified and prayerful. Check your choice with the priest.

Wedding Booklets –  If you intend to print a wedding booklet a draft is to be shown to the Celebrant before printing.

Church Flower Arrangements – Floral arrangements, pew decorations, etc in the church are your own responsibility. You are welcome to have simple arrangements of flowers. These may be placed on the two church pedestals at the rear of the sanctuary, or in front of the altar or lectern. Church Flowers can be arranged and provided by Mrs Ilma Underwood, 73 Digby Road Hamilton. Phone: 5572 3383 for a fee of $100.

Candelabra – Only the candelabra belonging to the church may be used. These are two 7 candle branched candlesticks. Hiring fee is $40. White candles can be provided, or your own coloured ones may be used.

PREPARATION IS IMPORTANT. WE TAKE YOUR DECISION TO MARRY SERIOUSLY

We encourage you to participate well in the preparation for your marriage. You are expected to give this priority over other commitments.

Please notify your guests of the following requirements by printing them on your invitation and in your booklet:

  1. Confetti, flower petals, rice etc.- These are not to be used within the Church grounds. They cause too much mess and can find their way into the interior of the church.
  2. Photographs and Videos – Apart from the entrance, the signing of the register and leaving the church, photos or videos are to be taken by the official photographers only. Numerous photographs during the ceremony can be intrusive and distracting from the sacredness of the moment.

A thought to ponder:

In view of the large number of people today who are unemployed, homeless and hungry, you may consider donating a little to the St Vincent de Paul Society. You may arrange this through the priest. It is a way to thank God for your bounty of love and friends. Let it represent the concern and kindness you would like to see in your own marriage.

God bless your marriage!

Pre – Marriage Education

Prepare for your marriage, not just your wedding!

Marriage is the most challenging, complex and yet rewarding commitment two people can make to each other.

Preparation is essential in making such an important life choice, with research showing that pre-marriage education significantly improves the chances of a successful relationship.

The goals of Centacare’s pre-marriage education program are for couples to:

  • explore relationship strength and growth areas;
  • improve communication skills;
  • learn how to cope with and resolve conflict;
  • discuss relationship roles and expectations; and
  • to focus on personal, couple and family goals.

Centacare Warrnambool offers couples private relationship education sessions. For more information contact Centacare on 5559 3000 Family Relationship Education Services Level 1, 142 Timor Street WARRNAMBOOL 3280.

Leadership, Ministries & Groups

Hamilton Parish

Mission Support Team – Fr Paddy

Meetings each Thursday Fortnight

  • Fr. Patrick Mugavin
  • Kymhan Watson
  • Carolyn Stanhope
  • John Hockey
  • Trish Irving
  • Maria Patience

Finance Committee

  • John Hockey (Parish Manager)
  • Fr. Pat Mugavin (Co-Pastor)
  • Fr George Kuruvila (Co-Pastor)
  • Ian Patience
  • Paul Kuilboer
  • Kevin Myers
  • Bryan Roberts
  • Ursula Murphy
  • Kathy Brody
  • John O’Sullivan
  • Orana Ladies Group
  • Anne Slattery  Ph 5570 8210

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Piety Stall – Hamilton

  • Parish Office  Ph 5571 1161 – Margaret Roberts

 

Bookings for the McKillop Centre – Hamilton

  • Parish Office Ph 5571 1161

Bereavement team

The Bereavement team sees its role as assisting and supporting a family who has suffered the death of a loved one – from early visits, helping to prepare for the Requiem or Funeral Service, to ongoing personal support.

There are many physical preparations and burdens that loved ones have to deal with. Local Undertakers can provide pamphlets especially prepared to guide families through.

They suggest that death should be discussed openly with family members, so that each can express personal desires. Ageing parents may wish to plan details of their own funeral.

There are also many business and legal matters to attend to. Important as they are, spiritual affairs are of greater significance. In spite of the sadness of loss, we should not see death as an end.

Through the Church, Our Lord offers the Mass and Sacraments, especially Eucharist and Reconciliation, to help us in our preparation for the next life.  When age or sickness indicates the later part of, or risk to our life, the “Sacrament of the Sick” further consolidates our preparation. For this reason it is vitally important to advise the priest when our loved ones face any serious threat to their well being.

Our Bereavement Group welcomes any who would wish to participate in this work. For further information contact the Parish Office – 5571 1161

The following is taken from an article by Fr Paul Boudreau, a Priest from the Norwich Diocese:

When those we care for are faced with the death of a loved one, especially a tragic death, we want so much to comfort and help yet so often find ourselves speechless, wondering what we can say that will help.

That wouldn’t be so bad, but sometimes we try to fill the silence with something, anything that might soften the devastating impact of loss.  We mean well:  we just don’t know what to say.

Forget the religious platitudes – “It must be God’s will”  or  “God must have a reason” when trying to comfort people.  They don’t work!!  Offer instead gestures of affection and words of sorrow.  It’s very appropriate to say “I’m so sorry”.  People even in grief, understand sorrow.  Grieve with them.   If they find it necessary to rage against God – let them.  God understands and can take it.

We do not need words of wisdom to console.  Our presence, our understanding that the grieving process can entail anger, disbelief, numbness and bewilderment as well as misery and our willingness to listen and sympathize can also help and support the bereaved.

Liturgy Team

Bishop's Mass altar-emailThe Liturgy Team prepares liturgical celebrations for special occasions and for regular weekend Masses.

Liturgy Team Members: Fr Pat, Kymhan Watson, Carolyn Stanhope; Noreen McLeish

 

Orana Ladies Group

The word “orana” is Aboriginal for “welcome”.

The group’s objective is to offer friendship to women of all ages and especially newcomers to the Church and School communities. Through involvement with Orana, women have also given their time and special skills to other programs within the parish.

It’s a well known fact that women don’t need an excuse to gather for a chat – and that’s certainly the case when Orana provides the perfect venue to meet for a meal or wine and coffee.

Since the launch of Orana in 2005, a whole host of topics and outings have been on offer, including movies and live productions. If the evening doesn’t start with a meal, it is guaranteed to finish with supper (or both) followed by great discussion and shared company.

By the way, there are no meeting formalities at all – as planning is done behind the scenes by a very informal committee!! You instantly become a member, whether you have managed to visit once since the group’s launch or a regular. Orana’s aim is to provide the place and a variety of topics – you get to decide if and when you can make it.

So if you’re looking for a welcoming place to meet new friends or rekindle old ones, then a night out “with the girls” is just the remedy! You’ll find details of what’s on at Orana each month in both Church and School Notices – so keep an eye out and join in where you’ll always be most welcomed.

Come and join us.

Anne Slattery

Parish Team Member

Ph: 0418 370 539

Maryknoll Centre

Maryknoll Activities

  • Craft Group:
    Anne Nunan. Ph 5572 1370
  • Scrapbooking:
    Kerry Stevens. Ph 5572 5191
  • Men’s Day Out: Held on Wednesday’s from 1pm – 4pm
    Gerald Healy. Ph 0429 381 595
  • Art  Group:
    Margaret Duyveston. Ph 5578 8213
  • Noah’s Ark Toy Library: Held each Wednesday at 11am – 1pm
    Pauline Perkins. Ph 0428 287 113
  • Booking Enquiries:  Bev Kaaye  0429 909 240

Funerals

Arranging a funeral is a task we all hope never to have to cope with. Unfortunately there are times when we have no choice and we hope that by presenting these Liturgical guidelines from the Catholic Diocese of Ballarat, it may make the procedure easier for you.

Funerals can be celebrated in a number of places – the Church, Funeral Parlour, Graveside, Crematorium. In each case, there should be appropriate use of Christian symbols and Scripture for the funeral service and committal of the body and/or ashes. Those preparing for funerals should ensure that the necessary preparations are made and communicate with the Funeral Director regarding all liturgical celebrations.

  1. Length of Liturgy 
    The length of the funeral celebration should take into consideration the tension for the bereaved, the constraints of those attending, the requirements regarding the use of the church or place of celebration and cemetery. In the normal course of events, funeral masses should aim to be no longer than one hour.
  2. Eulogy 
    Placement of the Eulogy is at the beginning of Mass or Service, after the Greeting. Length of the Eulogy is to be no more than 7 minutes. It is recommended that only one person gives the Eulogy and that the text of the Eulogy is written out.
  3. Symbols
    Symbols are of two kinds: Life symbols and Sacred/Christian symbols.Life symbols: Provision should be made for life symbols (photos, fishing rods, knitting….) to be placed in an appropriate and dignified place at the front of the Church prior to the Funeral liturgy separate from the Christian symbols. The life symbols could be alluded to during the Eulogy.Sacred/Christian symbols: The symbols of paschal candle, pall, water, incense, devotional articles should be used according to the ritual. The pall can appropriately remain on the coffin until reaching the graveside. Only Christian symbols should be placed on the coffin. Flowers for the coffin should be moderate in size.
  4. Readings
    Readings for the Liturgy of the Word are to be from Sacred Scripture and an authorised translation used. Other readings may be included during the Eulogy or after Communion at a Funeral Mass.
  5. Presentation of the Gifts
    Only the bread and wine should be presented at this time in a Funeral Mass.
  6. Music
    Music during the Funeral Mass should be sacred music and liturgically appropriate for the ritual being celebrated. Requested music may be incorporated in a reflective manner and the music as the coffin leaves the church could be negotiable. Consideration regarding use of personal choice music may also be part of the gathering after the Funeral.THE RITE OF COMMITTAL: The Rite of Committal may take place at the Graveside or at the Crematorium. If there is to be no service at the graveside or Crematorium, it is appropriate to have a simple ritual of farewell as the hearse leaves the Church. It is also appropriate to have a simple prayer service for the Committal of Ashes.AFTER THE FUNERAL: Following the immediate time of the funeral, continuing pastoral support should be offered to the bereaved, e.g. regular visits, a card or some kind of remembrance on the first anniversary of death. Occasions of liturgical celebration for those who have died should feature in the life of the parish – e.g. the inclusion of prayers for those who have died in the General Intercessions, an annual memorial Mass or service, prayers during November, Mass in the cemetery.

St Mary’s Primary School

As a Parish Catholic Primary School, St. Mary’s is committed to creating a vibrant educational community, allowing each child to achieve their full potential, imbued with the Good News of Jesus: one in which each person in our community is enabled to grow in dignity, developing a living, loving relationship with Christ and others.

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St. Mary’s is a Catholic school where young people are encouraged to develop their own unique identity in a loving and respectful atmosphere, thus creating a positive attitude to life.

St. Mary’s has a proud history of offering quality education to town and country students with a range of backgrounds and abilities.

For more information, visit the school website.

St Mary of the Cross

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St Mary’s Hamilton regularly host groups of  pilgrims from Interstate and Overseas who travel the South West of Victoria and South Australia to visit significant MacKillop sites.

Groups are escorted to visit the St Mary’s Church and celebrate Mass, the old Cemetery for prayer and reflection at Alexander MacKillop’s grave and the Anglican Church to view the icon of Mary MacKillop.

Their hosts are Ted Oliver and Marie Cook plus a band of parishioners who make their stay in Hamilton very welcome with meals and hospitality.

All funds raised go to Sister Jean Dwyer of St Joseph’s Corner, Yarraville to assist with her work in Drug and Alcohol Rehabilitation.

 

Alexander McKillop 1

Alexander MacKillop 2

 

Alexander MacKillop

Mary MacKillop’s father – Alexander was born 21 January 1812 in the Highlands of Scotland.  At the age of 12 he went to Rome to study for the priesthood.  Alexander spent 9 years in Rome and was a precocious and talented student.  With ill health and too young  to be ordained, he was forced to return to Scotland in 1831. He studied at Blairs College in Aberdeen before returning home once again in 1833.

Alexander remained an independent thinker, prolific writer and a formidable opponent in philosophical and theological debate.

He left for Australia in the sailing ship “Brilliant” in October 1837, arriving at Sydney Cove on 20 January 1838. He worked successfully for some time in Sydney before moving to Melbourne.

Flora MacKillopFlora MacKillop

Mary MacKillop’s mother – Flora was also a native of the Highlands of Scotland and came to Australia with her family on the “Glen Huntley”, arriving in Melbourne on 17 April 1840. Within a short period of time Alexander and Flora were married at St Francis Church, Melbourne by Fr. Geoghegan on 14 July 1840.

“A gentle winsome woman” is how Mary described her mother many years later.

Mary Helen MacKillop –  first born child of Alexander and Flora on 15 January 1842 and baptized 28 February 1842.

There were seven other children: Margaret, John, Alexander, Anne, Alexandrina, Donald and Peter. The MacKillop family – while very strong in faith – experienced many difficulties.

Alexander stood for parliament twice without any success, but each time he accepted defeat good-humouredly. While he appeared to fail financially and socially, he publicly raised the lack of educational opportunities for children in remote parts of the Colony.  His eldest daughter Mary was later to redress this need.  Alexander had a strong social conscience and ensured that Mary acquired a good education.

In the 1850’s the MacKillop family moved constantly, with Mary playing a major part in maintaining the well-being of the family through those years.  In late 1863 after gaining a teaching position in Portland, the scattered MacKillop family joined Mary in Portland’s Bay View Cottage.

To support her family Mary established her first school – a school for young ladies.  All did not go well for this venture or for the family.  The tensions that grew in the family were attributed mainly to Alexander.  It was decided in 1866 that he go to Dunkeld to his youngest brother, Peter.

In November 1866 Mary announced her wish to enter religion with the approval of her mother and father whom she called ‘Poor Papa’.  She retained a deep and abiding affection for him.

Under the guidance of Fr Julian Tenison Woods, Mary set up her first school in a stable remodelled by her carpenter brother, John.  She had prayed wholeheartedly to St Joseph to help them find a suitable building to rent.  Mary was joined in Penola by her two sisters, Anne and Lexie.  Fifty-five children enrolled for the opening.  Mary wore a ‘simple black dress.

Mary MacKillopSignificant dates in St Mary’s Life

• 1867 – 15 August – Mary’s First Profession – Mary of the Cross.

• 1867 & 1868 – The Sisters of St Joseph opened schools, orphanages and refuges in Adelaide.

• 1868  – 19 December  – Alexander MacKillop died at Victoria Hotel Hamilton Vic. Buried in Hamilton Cemetery.

• 1869 – Mary is invited to Brisbane by Bishop Quinn

• 1871 – 22 September – Mary excommunicated by Bishop Sheil for alleged disobedience to his new rule.

The Bishop had become quite erratic in his decision making and was being advised by some jealous trouble makers.

Mary remained quite calm and at peace during this time.  Mary later wrote, “I was intensely happy and I felt nearer to God than I had felt before.  The sensation of calm and the beautiful presence of God I shall never forget…”

During this time, Mary and her sisters were given hospitality by various benefactors, including a Jew – Mr Solomon and Fr. Woods’ brother.

Fr Tappeiner S J became Mary’s spiritual director encouraging her to be at peace, saying that he believed the excommunication to be invalid.

• 1872 – 23 February – Mary’s excommunication is lifted.  The dying Bishop regretted his earlier decision.

• 1873 – Mary visited Rome and received the blessing of Pope Pius IX.  She visited other places, Loreto Paray-le-Monial in France and her homeland, Scotland.  The work of the Sisters of  St Joseph spread rapidly, continuing to bear many hardships from individual diocesan authorities.

Their rule was finally  approved by Rome in 1888 when their wish for Central Government was approved and upheld with the Mother House in North Sydney.

• 1886 – Flora MacKillop drowned in shipwreck near Eden.

• 1889 – Fr. Tenison Wood died.

• 1909 – 8 August Mary MacKillop died.

• 1995 – 19 January Mary declared Blessed by Pope John Paul II in ceremony at Randwick Racecourse Sydney.

• 2008 – Cause for canonisation proceeds.  The second miracle needed taken to Rome to be examined by panel of medical and theological experts.

• 2008 –  17 July Pope Benedict XVI visits Mother House in North Sydney.

• 2010  – Mary MacKillop canonised as a Saint on October 17, 2010.

 

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